Being in love can be an all-consuming delightful state where you float around on pink clouds and giggle in sync with the one who has captured your heart. But just like there are days when everything feels right, there are also those days when you wonder if you're even speaking the same language.
That's why it's important to occasionally go the extra mile for each other and strengthen the bond between you. And it doesn't require much. Guys, you may not believe it, but it's the little things that go a long way.
Tell her she's sexy: Even if you see her every day, it's important to remind her that she's sexy. There will be days when she feels ugly, and you have the power to change that.
Leave a note on the fridge: Whether you're just going to work or will be away for several days, it's a good way to show her that she's one of the first things you think about in the morning.
Slip your hand into her back pocket: This works every time. It will make her feel feminine and sexy.
Offer her a massage: It's a tip you've heard before, but you've heard it because it works. It creates relaxation, intimacy, and often involves bare skin. All good things.
Don't be afraid to be emotional: You don't have to sob, but she will admire you for opening up and sharing.
Encourage her to leave things at your place: If you don't live together yet, you can encourage her to leave things at your place. Room for her in your apartment equals room for her in your life.
Take her to a wedding: Fact: Weddings ignite love and also libido. Now you know, do what you will with it.
Kiss her hand: Some caresses scream sex, and then there are those that scream love and care. This tip belongs to the latter and creates a closer bond between you.
Listen to her viewpoints: Don't just keep quiet until she's done talking. Listen to her, evaluate what she says, and take it into account as often as you can.
Go shopping with her: And don't stand yawning demonstratively in the middle of the store to signal that you're bored.
Tell her she's your best friend: The best thing is to be in a relationship with your best friend.
Public affection: If she thinks it's best to keep it between you, then do that, but if she thinks it's nice for you to show that you like her in public, then it's a good trick. She will know you're not afraid to boast that you're her guy.
Be silly: She will love you for trying to impress her with your crazy jokes or silly behavior.
Do a favor for her friend: It's the whole package you're getting when you get a girlfriend. If you show some goodwill towards one of her friends who needs to move, it will likely come back to you many times over from your girl.
Tell her how important she is to you: Even in adversity, it's good to remind her that she is one of the most important people in your life. That way, you stand together and handle challenges side by side.